[ATTENDED: April 4, 2025] Deftones
I liked Deftones pretty much from when they first came out (the riff for My Own Summer is so good), although like everyone else, it was White pony that really blew me away.
I was lucky enough to see them in 2016 after they released Gore (an album that I love even though many fans do not). They played the Sands Bethlehem, not a great venue, but the band sounded great and the band was really interactive with the audience.
I knew I wanted to see them again but the pandemic had other ideas, rescheduling their shows a few times. When the rescheduled show finally happened in 2022, I wound up going with my daughter to see Beach Bunny instead. And my son (a Deftones fan) went in my place. Interestingly, since then my daughter has become a big Deftones fan and wow I’m sure she wished we had gone to Deftones instead of Beach Bunny.
Indeed, when this show was announced, I grabbed four tickets for me, my son, and my daughter. But then my daughter had a commitment she couldn’t get out of (oh no), so my son’s friend came along–he’s a big fan as well–and all was good. Actually it wasn’t all good because my car died on the way down. Luckily it died on the way to his school and not while we were on 95. Okay it didn’t die exactly, but it gave me a very alarming warning beep that made me quite certain I would not be driving it anywhere except home.
So he drove us in his convertible. And he handled the nonsense of rte 95, the bottleneck at the Wells Fargo Center and the fact that there was a baseball game at the same time next door very well. The baseball traffic was the real killer and the reason we missed fleshwater completely. While we were in line for the exit, a car swerved in front of us and it was one of my coworkers! How weird. They were going to the stupid baseball game.
But we had decent seats (straight back but not close) and after Mars Volta we waited with mounting excitement. It was here that I realized how young (and female) much of the audience was (like my daughter). I believe that TikTok has introduced them to a lot of new people (good for Deftones, but it means they pay arenas instead of large clubs now).
The lights went down and thier gigantic video screen behind them lit up. The screen jumped between shots of the band playing and other random projected videos.
The show started with what I guess is their (now) biggest hit. I believe that Be Quiet is the song that got all the younguns into them. And it sounded great, even in the cavernous Wells Fargo. And I was really impressed with how energetic and bouncy Chino Moreno (who is in his 50s now) was. (more…)


When At the Drive-In broke up, they split into two bands: The Mars Volta and Sparta. The Mars Volta went in a wild, psychedelic/prog metal direction and Sparta maintained a more tradition heavy rock sound.







