SOUNDTRACK: NICK CAVE & THE BAD SEEDS-“As I Sat Sadly By Her Side” (2001).
Nick Hornby reviewed Cave’s album No More Shall We Part in may of 2001. I had listened to the album a lot back then but hadn’t in a while. I found that I enjoyed it just as much now as I did back then. although I feel it suffers a bit from excess. At 52 minutes, there’s a song or two too many.
But I was dismayed at the way Hornby dismissed this opening song.
“As i Sadly Sadly By Her Side” is a storytelling song with a repeated refrain. While it is true that there is no chorus, there is certainly a catchy repeated moment.
The song starts with a terrific slow bass line. It is staggered and smooth at the same time. A pretty piano melody sprinkles through as he sings.
There is drama in the song and it slow grows more intense as the strings are added in. Intense is a relative word to be sure, as the intensity goes from maybe 2 to 4 out of ten, but even that small increase does provide drama.
It is an intensely personal moment between two people–unlike just about any other song I’ve heard.
[READ: September 20, 2019] “Sweet Misery”
This essay is subtitled “The mellowing of Nick Cave.” This was written in 2001. Imagine what it would be called if it was written today.
The mellowing refers to his then new album No More Shall We Part which Hornby says is “in patches, so transcendentally beautiful that one can be forgiven a small spasm of impatience: if he had this in him, why did he waste all of those years shouting at people?”
Hornby begins by talking about the ubiquity of pop music in 2001. How when he was fifteen it was hard to hear the music he liked. But now (in 2001), if you’re fifteen you can hear it figuratively anywhere. [In 2019, it is literally anywhere].
Cave’s records with The Birthday Party (in the later 1970s) were “a punk-inspired and self-consciously apocalyptic noise whose main purpose, apparently, was to terrify the audience into submission.” (more…)


Preceding his sister by a few months at the Tiny Desk was Rufus Wainwright. I love Rufus’ delivery and style. I really like his voice too. The problem is I don’t really like his music all that much. I wish I did, because I love hearing him sing. But for some reason it doesn’t do anything for me. We even saw him live (on a bill with Guster and Ben Folds) and left half way through his set because it’s such a different energy than the other two.
I have been a fan of Loudon Wainwright III for many years. He has a very musical family and Martha Wainwright is his daughter. Kate McGarrigle is also her mom, so that’s some lineage.