[ATTENDED: May 23, 2023] Beach Bunny
When this mini tour was announced I was pretty psyched. My son and I have seen PUP and loved them. My daughter and I have seen Beach Bunny (twice) and loved them. The only problem was that it was at Rooftop Pier 17–a massive pain in the butt to get to.
But I grabbed tickets anyway and surprised them earlier this month.
When PUP ended the place cleared out some. There were definitely fans of both bands there (in fact, they had toured together five years ago), but a lot of the more hardcore PUP fans took off, which was nice.
I used the intermission time (since our space wasn’t that great anyway) to look at merch and use the bathroom. When I came back up, my daughter had moved further back (she says she can see better from the back, which is kind of true, but there is the huge problem of drunken hangers on hanging on and talking back there). My son, on the other hand, pressed forward and wound up just five people from the stage.
He’s not even a Beach Bunny fan, (well, he is now), but he was right in the pit. Right in the action. He said he got hit in the stomach and helped people crowd surf. It was great.
The tickets said that the show would end at 10PM. So I was kind of surprised that Beach Bunny didn’t start at 8:45. Or even 9. When the clock struck 9 the speakers played “Bohemian Rhapsody” which got everyone going.
The band came out during the slow part of the song and launched into the super catchy “Good Girls.” It was a great opening song.
Beach Bunny is definitely less punky that PUP, but Lili Trifilio has a ton of energy and a great stage presence. She acknowledged that they were less heavy than PUP, “We’re a little softer than PUP, but I need the pits to commence.”
Like with PUP, her set was not filled with new songs (only three from the most recent album). More songs came from her 2020 album Honeymoon.
New lead guitar player Anthony Vaccaro was excellent–filling these songs with solos and feedbacking sounds. He did a great job ending all of the songs with enough panache that the camera person kept focusing on him at the end of the songs (and as the lights faded, his long hair and posture made a great silhouette). He also thanked his mom who was in the crowd that night.
Each time we’ve seen Beach Bunny, her show has gotten shorter (this set was only 50 minutes, but that’s the bogusness of the double headline bill. Nevertheless, she did play a song we hadn’t heard live before “Gone.”
My daughter and I had moved around a bit to get away from tall men and drinkers. We wound up by a group of partying women who were just far enough away that I didn’t hear them talking during the songs, but I could enjoy them dancing like crazy and singing along.
The end of the set was a perfect four song set of “Sports,” probably my favorite of hers. “Nice Guys” and “Cloud 9” are great and the set ended with a fantastic stretched out version of “Painkiller.” The end of the song seemed to go on extra long as they had a few minutes to spare.
We had a great time and then took pictures from the roof of the skyline.
We grabbed a hot dog on the way back to the PATH station and actually made it home pretty quickly. I had hoped we might get home before midnight, but we did make it back by 12:15. SO we were out for 6 hours. Not bad for 2 and a half hours of music (grumpy old man voice).
| 2023 | 2022 | 2021 |
| Good Girls (Don’t Get Used) ⇔ | Oxygen ⊕ | Prom Queen ♣ |
| Weeds ⊕ | Cuffing Season Ø | Love Sick ⇔ |
| Promises Ø | 6 Weeks ∀ | Cuffing Season Ø |
| Gone ⊕ | Weeds ⊕ | Oxygen ⊕ |
| Dream Boy Ø | Promises Ø | Promises Ø |
| Prom Queen ♣ | Good Girls (Don’t Get Used) ⇔ | Good Girls (Don’t Get Used) ⇔ |
| Love Sick⇔ | Prom Queen ♣ | April Ø |
| April Ø | Karaoke ⊕ | Rearview Ø |
| Oxygen ⊕ | Dream Boy Ø | Entropy [new] ⊕ |
| 6 Weeks ∀ | Love Sick ⇔ | 6 Weeks ∀ |
| Colorblind Ø | Rearview Ø | Dream Boy Ø |
| Sports ♣ | Nice Guys ⇔ | Nice Guys ⇔ |
| Nice Guys ⇔ | Entropy ⊕ | Colorblind Ø |
| Cloud 9 Ø | Sports ♣ | February © |
| Painkiller ♣ | Blame Game ⇔ | Sports ♣ |
| Fire Escape ⊕ | Blame Game ⇔ | |
| Cloud 9 Ø | Boys © | |
| Painkiller ♣ | Cloud 9 Ø | |
| encore | ||
| Hot n Cold (Katy Perry cover) | ||
| Painkiller ♣ | ||
⊕ Emotional Creature (2022)
⇔ Blame Game EP (2021)
Ø Honeymoon (2020)
♣ Prom Queen EP (2018)
© Crybaby (2017)
∀ ANIMALISM EP (2015)
I assumed that PUP would go on last as they are the louder band. But, in fact, they went on second. And that may have been wise as many of PUP’s more bro fanbase left after their set.
But as they were setting up, the sun hadn’t set yet and PUP came out to the orchestral version of their album (they just released some kid of answering machine version of their album from during the pandemic, which I’m pretty curious to hear). They had a cool evening sky and marveled at being on a rooftop in New York City (it is a very cool venue).
And then they were off. They opened with the two songs they closed the show with last time. This being a shorter set, it was more of a greatest hits and less of a celebration of the last album.
There’s only one rule at a PUP show. Look at your neighbors around you, have fun and look out for each other’s safety. Then the moshing began in earnest.
I love “My Life Is Over and I Couldn’t Be Happier.” Aw heck, I love all their songs. catchy and fast with lots of oohs and ahhs.
I didn’t expect any different songs than the previous show, but they played two. First was “Dark Days” from their debut (and old school fans went nuts). I laughed with my daughter saying that we hadn’t moved from when the show started. But when we were first standing there, there were about twenty-five [rows of standing] people between us and the stage. By this song, the mosh pit had filled up so much that there were at least fifty.
“Totally Fine” is probably my favorite song in the world right now. It’s funny that a 35 year old is singing these words and that teenagers are singing along, when really, they apply to fifty year olds so much more.
Lately, I’ve started to feel like I’m slowly dyingAnd if I’m being real I don’t even mindWhether I’m at my worst or I’m totally fine
Guitarist Steve Sladkowski shouted out the ongoing WGA strike, imploring the crowd to “go hard for the WGA” and saying the band were in the musician’s union and that there were many striking writer friends there today. The crowd responded appropriately.
And also in unexpected ways. During a quiet moment, Stefan looked down in the pit and said “holy shit, someone just got engaged.” He looked at them and said “For the rest of your lives you get to say you got engaged at a PUP show, and that makes you a big fuckin’ loser.”
He was sorry to say that the next song was sad, but that they’d dedicate the next fast one to them. “Robot Writes a Love Song” is also really fun, especially with the reference to “Black Hole Sun.”
They other song they hadn’t played last time was “Habits” off the new album, so that was fun. Then they went old school with their thrashing “Reservoir.”
When we saw them last time, the show was longer, but they really crammed a lot into this 5o minute set. There weren’t as many antics–no lengthy solo battles (last time, they played a huge portion of the Hotel California” solo together. But there was plenty of jumping–it’s amazing the height Stefan gets. And there was time for at least one shredding solo from Sladkowski during “Waiting.” When the solo was over, Stefan, who had walked off the stage, came running back on stage, rolling to the mic and singing the chorus right on time.
Stefan announced that they had exactly two songs left.
They ended with two blistering old songs. The wonderful “If This Tour Doesn’t Kill You, I Will,” and the super fun “DVP.”
The show was loud and wild and fun. And I was super impressed that my daughter hung with me in the middle of the crowd (we didn’t get close to the pit), despite the pushing and bumping. My son was nearby but kind of on his own, and that worked to his benefit at the end of this set.
| 2023 (Pier 17) | 2022 (Franklin Music Hall) |
|---|---|
| Morbid Stuff ⊗ | Four Chords ξ |
| Kids ⊗ | Totally Fine ξ |
| My Life Is Over and I Couldn’t Be Happier ≅ | My Life Is Over and I Couldn’t Be Happier ≅ |
| Dark Days ¶ | Guilt Trip ¶ |
| Totally Fine ξ | Free at Last ⊗ |
| Robot Writes a Love Song ξ | Sleep in the Heat ≅ |
| Free at Last ⊗ | Robot Writes a Love Song ξ |
| Sleep in the Heat ≅ | Reservoir ¶ |
| Habits ξ | Edmonton ⇓ |
| Reservoir ¶ | Matilda ξ |
| Scorpion Hill ⊗ | If This Tour Doesn’t Kill You, I Will ≅ |
| Waiting ξ | DVP ≅ |
| If This Tour Doesn’t Kill You, I Will ≅ | Scorpion Hill ⊗ |
| DVP ≅ | See You at Your Funeral ⊗ |
| Waiting ξ | |
| Familiar Patterns ≅ (Blisted Fister was printed on the setlist) | |
| PUPTHEBAND Inc. Is Filing for Bankruptcy ξ | |
| Morbid Stuff ⊗ | |
| Kids ⊗ |
ξ THE UNRAVELING OF PUPTHEBAND (2022)
⇓ This Place Sucks Ass EP (2020)
⊗ Morbid Stuff (2019)
≅ The Dream Is Over (2016)
¶ PUP (2013)

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